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Geoff Jerome beside the fallen headstone on the grave of Reading FC founder Joseph Sydenham
Geoff Jerome beside the fallen headstone on the grave of Reading FC founder Joseph Sydenham
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Royals’ plea to fix founder's grave

By Paul Robins
May 14, 2010

getreading is calling on fans to do their bit to help preserve a piece of Reading Football Club’s history.

The gravestone of Joseph Sydenham – who founded the club in 1871 – has run into disrepair and needs to be restored to its former glory.

Loyal Royal Geoff Jerome stumbled upon the broken monument, which has lost part of its headstone – while tending to family members’ graves at Reading Old Cemetery in Cemetery Junction.

He said he contacted the club to ask Sir John Madejski if he could pay for the restoration, but got no reply. However, the club told getreading yesterday it was looking into the costs of repairing the resting place.

Mr Jerome is hoping kind-hearted fans will support plans to help protect the memory of the “first father of Reading”.

Geoff, 62, from Didcot, said: “It is so sad to see the grave in such a poor state. This is the first father of Reading FC we are talking about.

“Without him the club wouldn’t be what it is today.”

“Other clubs have statues and memorials outside the ground but at Reading there is nothing to commemorate these figures.”

Geoff – whose dad Ron worked as a steward at Elm Park during the 1970s and 80s – believed the grave was damaged several years ago.

“I reckon a tree branch has fallen down and knocked it off. I hope Reading fans and the club can come together to restore it,” he said.

Mr Sydenham, a local jeweller, was just 27 when he chaired the inaugural meeting of the club at the Bridge Street Rooms in 1871, and became the club’s first Honorary Secretary.

Reading FC spokesman Craig Mortimer-Zhika said: “Mr Sydenham is hugely important to the club and we want his memory to be respected in the right manner.

“We are working closely with STAR [Supporters’ Trust At Reading] and are in the process of accessing the finances.”

Jon Keen, STAR vice chairman, said they had been in touch with a stonemaker but this had been delayed because they were unable to track down the well-hidden grave.

“This is something we are very keen to contribute to,” he said.

“There is not much to show the history of Reading FC before John Madejski, and we are looking at how we can help.”

He added volunteers would be needed to help maintain the grave in the future.

Julian Walker, managing director of Reading funeral firm A B Walker & Son, estimated a repair bill in excess of £3,000.

He added the cemetery authority would have to grant permission for repairs and could only do so with the owner of the grave’s consent.

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   Hi. This would look lovely on my portfolio!!!! I am the newest sculptor in Reading (and therefore much cheaper than the established stonmasons/sculptors) and would love the opportunity to repair this monument to Joseph Sydenham. When all the politics (ref above) and courtesies have been resolved then please get in touch and I'd be delighted to e-mail examples of my recent work to whoever is organising this repair and get this important monument standing again.

Kind regards Andrew Hood queequeg333@yahoo.co.uk
McAlistair
28/05/2010 at 13:24 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   say it to my face ... grow up you saddo ...

you got your mug in the paper and achieved you goal of being "famous" for 15 mins ...

Why are you so concerned about the grave of someone you never knew, met or had any dealings with???? Have you tried to contact the living relatives to see what their wishes are or even to get permission to touch the grave???, I think not ....

saddo
The Racing Snake
18/05/2010 at 02:04 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   What is it with all this 'say it to my face' rubbish? Grow up ffs. People can have their say without the need for other's to act the big man and say 'say it to my face'. You really do look and sound ridiculous. Schoolyard stuff really.

My last comment was obviously not acceptable. It said Jerome is yet another idiot wanted his face in the paper. Actually I said 'big head in the paper' but Mr Jerome scares me......
Say What You Think, Reading
17/05/2010 at 13:41 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   The courtesy of a reply would have cost Madejski nothing - should have been very appealing then!

Wouldn't it be ironic if 130 years from now someone contacts the then Chairman regarding the state of disrepair of a grave belonging to SJM and receives no reply!
HARB
15/05/2010 at 21:54 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   i think we all, as rfc supporters should dip into our pockets and pay for it (not that i have a pile of cash lying about as anyone else) this is every rfc supporters history and a part of our club. this man did something that i am sure sjm himself would be quick to agree far outreaches any achievement of his own( not meant with any disrespect to the current guardian). let sjm worry about current affairs of the club, if he so wishes to make a donation,then it would be a fantastic gesture from a generous man. but under no amount of the imagination should this be a point of critisism for the guy if he chooses not to. all this provided the family have no objections
ajr111, swindon
15/05/2010 at 00:44 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   To teatime In response to your nasty comments. Firstly i was born & bred in Reading & so was my family going back hundreds of years. My father was a life long supporter & for the last 8yrs of his life was a steward at Elm Park. Secondly how dare you say i bad mouthed Sir John when all i was trying to do was to bring this to the Attention of Reading FC. I had Recieved E.Mails from them saying they really wanted to help. Without this man you would not have a club to support? You should get your facts right before you come out with libel? Do not make comments that you are not man enough to say to my face. Mr Jerome
Geoffrey Jerome
14/05/2010 at 20:59 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   How long before we see Kiran Sharma of Gravity Personnel stood next to it with a cheque!!!
EIH, Reading
14/05/2010 at 20:57 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Well said Take a Chill Pill!!!!!! Sir John is not an open bank account so give him a break!!!!! He's invested more money, time, sweat and tears into our beloved club than any one else so how dare that geezer chops Jerome (who isn't even from Reading!!!!) bad mouth Sir John like that and try blackmail bully boy tactics to make him cough up!!!!!! I don't call that being a fan of RFC.

If you're that bothered Jerome, pay for it yourself and stop whinging! You only did this for publicity, hence front page photo and obviously have nought else to worry about! Get a life and support Conservative!

A very disgruntled Sir J fan
teatime
14/05/2010 at 16:40 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   May be the living relatives should sort it out? Seems to me there are far more needy causes to give money to than this
Spanky
14/05/2010 at 14:08 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   First port of call should be Sydenham's family - owned expensive jewellers in Reading so may have a bit of spare cash.

SJM can't be expected to pay for everything!
Take a Chill Pill!
14/05/2010 at 13:22 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Is there any living relatives of him in Reading, and if so, what are their feelings on this.
The Racing Snake
14/05/2010 at 13:20 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   £3000! We could buy a new goalkeeper with that much money!

Only kidding. I can't imagine the club refusing to fund this but if they do set up a donation page on this site and publicise it. I'd happily donate...
Reading Headings, Reading
14/05/2010 at 13:07 Offensive or Inappropriate?
 
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